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Tim Otto on Nurturing Intentional Community

Tim Otto is pastor of Church of the Sojourners in San Francisco, California, an intentional community that lives and serves together: “We believe God intends Christians to live out the pursuit of holiness not just individually but with a people, with a local church.” The community offers an apprenticeship program, where one can apply to join this unique fellowship for a year, as well as discern a long-term commitment. Tim, who is gay and theologically affirming of same-sex relationships, discerned a vow of celibacy in 2009 in order to devote himself to ministry. He has long given his life to serving others. As a Registered Nurse he was one of the first to work with AIDS patients. He has pastored Sojourners while simultaneously serving the broader San Francisco community.

Tim grew up in the Baptist church as a missionary kid (MK). Being an MK had its challenges, including attending seventeen different schools before he graduated high school. But Tim held fast to his Christian faith and began looking for ways to make a difference in the world from a young age, whether serving immigrants or teaching English through World Relief. In an article he wrote for Plough, he says, “Love perseveres in spite of failure, and humbly seeks forgiveness and love from God and others – and to forgive and love others – for the thousandth time. Love is rare because it is so difficult. At the Simple Way, a community known for service to its poor neighborhood, the participants say, ‘The most radical thing we do is choose to love each other…again and again.’” Tim has a Master of Theological Studies (MTS) degree from Duke Divinity School and has authored two books: Inhabiting the Church: Biblical Wisdom for a New Monasticism (co-authored with Jon Stock and Jonathan Wilson-Hartgrove) and Oriented to Faith: Transforming the Conflict Over Gay Relationships.

Listen to Tim Otto talk about the church and living in community in this podcast episode with pastor Tom of Sycamore Church.

The Story of Wilshire Baptist Church

When Wilshire Baptist Church was founded in 1951 in Dallas, Texas, the congregation could not have foreseen the monumental event that would ultimately severe their relationship with Baptist General Convention of Texas. In November 2016, Wilshire Baptist Church voted to fully affirm and include LGBTQ people into the life of the church.

Nineteen members of a study group, supported by pastor George Mason, prayed and processed for fourteen months before the congregation voted. The experience is recapped in a book by former associate pastor, Mark Wingfield, called Why Churches Need to Talk About Sexuality: Lessons Learned from Hard Conversations about Sex, Gender Identity and the Bible. While Wilshire initially lost 300 members who disagreed with the decision, the congregation quickly added 350 new members. Today, it remains a thriving, life-giving presence in the heart of Dallas.

Recently, George Mason retired after thirty years of shepherding Wilshire. But before he stepped down, Mason met with LGBTQ members at Wilshire to discuss what the church can do beyond a vote to foster a culture where sexual and gender minorities feel welcomed and involved. The result is a new Sunday School class called Shiloh that reaches out to LGBTQ parishioners and allies. The class is co-facilitated by Sally Gary, director of the non-profit CenterPeace and features a variety of guest teachers.

New book of George Mason’s sermons

Wilshire’s new pastor, Timothy Peoples, now continues what George Mason started, creating a church where all people can grow in relationship with Christ and use their spiritual gifts to serve. Watch one of Pastor Timothy’s first sermons at Wilshire:

Resources on Sexuality

Books on sexuality are a dime a dozen. As a result, it can be challenging to sort through and find the best resources. As LGBTQ Christians, we might need a book or article to give to ministry leaders or parents on same-sex relationships or gender identity to help them understand the lives of sexual and gender minorities. Or, we may want resources to help us better articulate why we are theologically affirming of LGBTQ people. If that’s you, check out the Library on Sexuality compiled at The Redwood Center for Spiritual Care and Education, which provides a collection of helpful books, articles, and videos.

Want to Learn a 500 Year Old Christian Prayer?

Prayer is foundational to the Christian life. Yet, sometimes we go through seasons where it’s difficult to know how to pray. That’s where traditional forms of prayer can help us out. The Examen Prayer is a practice that Christians have been using to pray for more than 500 years. It was popularly introduced by a pastor in the 16th century, Ignatius of Loyola.

The Examen Prayer is a wonderful way to begin attending to the movements of the Holy Spirit in daily life. It only takes about 10-15 minutes. People often do it at the end of the day, but it can be done in the morning or lunchtime or any other time during the day. Using a journal while you pray the Examen can be helpful if you find your mind wanders during prayer times.

Ready to try it out? Here are some resources to get you started.

This short video will walk you through the Examen Prayer:


Library for Christian LGBTQ Leaders

The Church needs you. Yes, you, the LGBTQ Christian. Whether you are called to a ministry role or a position in the public sphere or community, God has a purpose for your life. God wants to work in and through you to make a positive difference in the world. As a Christian with leadership qualities, your Christ-like service is a gift to others. Being a leader (or budding leader), doesn’t mean having all the answers. We need resources and others to walk with us. That’s why the Bakos Project has a blog thread on resources to help equip you in the work you do.

The posts that are added to this thread, include relevant book reviews, videos, classes, and more. Stay up to date on the latest posts at the Library for LGBTQ Leaders.

Find an LGBTQ Affirming Church

If you come from a more conservative Christian background such as evangelical, you may find yourself wondering where to attend church as an LGBTQ person. While many mainline denominations are affirming and these are options to explore, some LGBTQ folk long for a church that feels familiar. We want to hold onto the good of our heritage, while also being affirmed in our gifts. While it may take some time to find the right fit, be encouraged! Churches that both point us to Jesus and affirm us as LGBTQ people do exist! Below are links to a few directories that can help you get started.

In addition to these directories, follow the Find an Affirming Church blog posts by clicking the image below. This blog series will highlight specific affirming churches, as well as affirming pastors.

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