Friends of Bakos

Friends of Bakos strives to accomplish two things: 1) network theologically orthodox and affirming Christian pastors and leaders with each other and 2) network these same leaders with young LGBTQ Christians who participate in the Bakos Project.

For Christian pastors, professors, or community leaders who come from denominations that do not affirm LGBTQ people and their marriages, it can be a lonely journey for those who eventually shift their theological views to fully embrace LGBTQ people. That same lonely journey is true of many LGBTQ folk who grow up in non-affirming churches. The loss of friends or community means many of us have had to create new connections. That’s where Friends of Bakos can help.

Importantly, Friends of Bakos is an initiative that moves beyond the theological debate on sexuality. It’s a network for those who want to focus on growing deeper in faith and the broader mission of the church. For example, pastors who are affirming but want to integrate LGBTQ people into the life of the church more effectively. Or Christian leaders who want to help LGBTQ Christians to discern and utilize their God-given gifts. Friends of Bakos is also a place for pastors and leaders who are looking for community with other leaders who are both orthodox and affirming. (For those still transitioning toward affirming or wrestling with the theological question, see other helpful resources).

Is this you? Friends of Bakos have the following characteristics:

  • Pastor, ministry leader, or other Christian leader (e.g. leaders at Christian colleges, para-church ministries, non-profits, community development organizations, etc).
  • Theologically orthodox and affirming (affirming evangelicals or adjacent are especially encouraged to join).
  • Actively and regularly involved in a local church.
  • Deep love of Christ, high view of Scripture, and commitment to spiritual practices (e.g. prayer, reflection, kindness toward others).
  • Desire to network with and affirm LGBTQ Christians.
  • Desire to network with other pastors, ministry leaders, or Christian leaders in the community who are also theologically orthodox and affirming.

What we offer:

  • Private Facebook group for networking, conversation, and collaboration (this group includes Friends of Bakos and LGBTQ participants in the Bakos Project)
  • Friends of Bakos meet-up at the CenterPeace Conference.
  • Bakos Project e-newsletter and blog (with opportunities to contribute to both)

How to join:

The Bakos Project values a relational approach to involvement. We often rely on the referrals of other pastors and organizational leaders. If you don’t already know someone involved with Friends of Bakos, fill out this Interest Form and Karen Keen and/or Sally Gary would love to have a conversation with you. Thank you for supporting the Bakos Project!

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